The Myth of Constant Heroism: Embracing the Power of Moments

In a world deeply entrenched in the age of digital media and constant visibility, there's an overwhelming pressure to be in a perpetual state of greatness. The carefully curated snippets of our lives on social platforms, the highlight reels of achievements, and the incessant call to be more, do more, and show more paint a distorted image. In today's age, we are often bombarded with notions of consistent greatness, of being the best at all times. But how realistic, or even desirable, is this notion of unceasing heroism?

The 2016 movie Deadpool, amidst its irreverence and wit, offers an insightful reflection on this through a pivotal monologue by Colossus:

"Over a lifetime, there are only four or five moments that really matter. Moments when you’re offered a choice. To make a sacrifice, conquer a flaw, save a friend… spare an enemy. In these moments, everything else falls away."

Now, if we dissect this, it brings forth an empowering revelation. It is humanly impossible, and perhaps counterintuitive, to be at the pinnacle of our heroism 100% of the time. True heroism is not about constant vigilance, but about rising to the occasion in those rare, defining moments.

Why is this distinction vital? Because the misconception of continuous perfection leads to burnout, imposter syndrome, and a chronic sense of inadequacy. It denies us the grace to be human, to err, to rest, and most importantly, to grow. Mistakes and moments of weakness are not just inevitable; they're crucial. They ground us, teach us, and prepare us for the moments when it counts the most.

Our revered heroes like Jose Rizal and Andres Bonifacio, while immortalized in textbooks and monuments, were not void of flaws, doubts, or moments of weakness. They had ordinary days, filled with mundane tasks, personal struggles, and everyday worries. But when the critical moments came, the ones that demanded an extraordinary choice, they chose to act in service of a greater good.

And so, as we navigate our daily lives amidst the pressures of modern society, let's dispel the myth of ceaseless heroism. Let us be gentle with ourselves, recognizing that our value isn't determined by an unbroken streak of perfect days but by the choices we make when faced with our four or five moments. It's these choices that carve out our legacy, not the relentless pursuit of perpetual perfection.

On this National Heroes Day, let's celebrate not just the unwavering legends of our past but also our personal potential to make a difference when it truly matters. For it's not about being the best at all times, but about being our best when the time is right.

May we all find the courage and strength to rise to our moments. 🇵🇭✨